“I AM IN LOVE…NOW WHAT!” (Caliber asks Lovelab)
Question!
I’m in looooovvvvvvveeeeeeee!!! – Now what?
LOVELAB says:
Dear Caliber,
Although you are not giving me a lot of background on this one, I will assume that you have just fallen in love and you are hoping that everything runs smoothly in order for you to receive positive feedback from the object of your love.
I think the important thing to remember when you are in love is pacing. You want to stay on the same page as the person whom you are in love with so that they can explore their own feelings without pressure. You want to avoid putting the person in a position where they have to ‘decide’ on passionate feelings rather than letting it overcome them through the wonderful interactions you both enjoy.
Another very important factor in encouraging and maintaining passion is engaging in novel activities and exciting activities together. This not only builds positive memories, but also allows your partner to associate feelings of excitement and good times with you.
Good luck!
Tags: falling in love, love, pacing, passion